Wednesday, April 17, 2013

This Time in a Month...

We will be finishing our last full day in Russia, hopefully!

Today started out with me reading in the waiting room. Clearly I didn't learn the first time and decided to publicly cry by reading about when Nia sees her daughter for the first time.  I get my chest X-ray and proceed to shop for some wedding cards to mail.

I am now standing in Chapters staring at the kids blankets, books, baby shower gifts, etc. with a trembling lower lip and the threat of more tears.  I can't even bring myself to touch all the super soft animals!  I admit to myself I am terrified.

I am so scared that something will go wrong with Dania.  I keep pushing away this cloud of terror but it has overtaken me today.  I want this to work so badly that it makes me want to throw up.  I ache to hold her.  I felt that instant connection to her picture that wasn't there with Mak.  INSTANT!  I am so happy at the thought of her that I want to tell every stranger I see about our upcoming adventure but I am so scared to love her as much as I already do.  That scares me to the core because it is a set up for extreme heart break.

Now I am at home, after driving home through tears and sniffles, and I don't even know what to think.  I want it to be a month from now so the first trip is done.  I want to have a court date with a known end date of thirty days after that!

I want her!

I want to be a mom.

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