I have also given up on trying to understand the eating habits. After 6 days in a row of absolute screaming, she ate dinner no problem the next 3 nights. Sigh. As long as she tries it, I'm okay... but come on, just try it without it taking an hour! Keep it up kiddo!
She is also singing so much now that it warms my heart and makes me long to get her into some sort of music class. She watches little nursery rhyme videos on the tablet and I can now recognize her requests, "Mama sing Old McGonna?" and recognize her tunes when she sings in her room. I just have to remember these sweet moments when she tests my patience - which she is starting to blatantly do. A new phase now where she points out that she is doing something she knows she isn't allowed to do, like running up to me with something small in her mouth and showing me just the corner of it sticking out while pointing at it! At least every morning when she says "hi Mama!" I forget all that happened the day before... usually.